Open Relationship ?

I saw  someone declare they have an Open relationship. But when I found out what is their logical reasoning, I literally facepalm myself.

Quoting that fellow(not revealing the sexes here):
"So , I am coupled with my partner and everybody knows bout it. Which leads me to think, since this is an open secret, which means now I am having an 'open' relationship right?"

Seriously, that moment, I really had the urge (and I did ) to tell that fellow the mistake that he/she had done.
Declaring an open relationship in cyberspace is like announcing that you have a sex buddy in public space.

So imagine a dude yelling ,
"my relationship with this girl/ guy is only  sex related, nothing else!" 
What would you think of him? Or her?

I understand that in urban areas, having an open relationship is rather common, but it takes either a casanova or Paris Hilton to announce it.
Not saying I am grammar Nazi or anything, I am just against the mistake made pure  ignorance.

Yup , this is a first world problem post. But I am so bored now that I have to do something to avoid myself from sleeping

Cheers
Boon

公平 ,

本要用非死不可来表达自己,
都给人射到自己脸上了,还不反击吗? 
不过还是在自己地盘画一画好了,
至少自己不会畜怨气,  现在要学保养自己,

 今天很多人闹得很不愉快, 不过总算明白,
原来所谓的公平,
就是majority　占了便宜还卖乖，
而minority　就是吃了暗亏还被当坏人看,

第一次, 也是最后一次, 
终于上了宝贵的一课，　我不冤不怨

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Hp pic of the day...

Since I saw somebody mention me in his blog, 

His blog is regarding about taking picture with SLR,

and recently I got too many people boasting with SLR in my life, 

and their photo sucks.....

so this is payback.....

So , since I got no SLR , 

I use handphone instead. 

I got no setting to play with, 

so have to rely on the stupidity of a phone cam

and composition to make it nice

And this is two head and a hand...dun think too much....

 

cant even control focus in handphone...sad..

but i like this...^^ 

Thanks yu for inspire me to make a post...

boonboon2k2

I still can win other SLR user without using SLR

Bitch...

My mom used to tell me that
"People are not to be trusted",
At first I don't get the meaning
thanks to adulthood, I get the gist of it,

And mom ,
I still disagree your quote(I post the reason tomorrow),
But for this post , I agree la,

it is sad to hear
there are many consequences on trusting people,
when they are many kind of people around,
in fact , I meet some of weirdest kind ,
so weird that ,
I recommend all the sociologist,psychologist to take a look

Name one of them ?
Bitch is the best adjective ,
It doesnt need to be a girl to be a bitch, guy can be too,
but I referring to both gender
Those who are inconsiderate

It's OK to be selfish at times
but being selfish doesn't give you the privilege to be inconsiderate,

I speak what I think,
Especially to those I trust ,

However there is a case,
where I just express my thought to her
as she indirectly responsible causing trouble to other people,
and I hope she realized that too,
so I try to call her and tell her that,
I knew it cause awkwardness, so......
I did not scold ,did not raise my voice, my tone frequency din even change
(i knew because I tried very hard to maintain the frequency),
and I spend the time explain the situation POLITELY,

If it's my best friend, sure dun give face and shoot only,


yet the next thing I get ,

A pure befriend act,
etc, delete me from facebook...A hate post from her....saying how I scold her badly,
Lol , funny ...
but can understand la, never seen my level 10 anger,
level 1 may be too much for her,

oh,ya! she drag another victim into the drama,
he also kena befriend
I admit he is innocent in this case,
sorry for that ,
but , dun think too much ,
我对事不对人
(means i am objective in this case)

However, I not the kind of person who give up on friendship easily,
so another attempt to persuade her
despite I still feel I did nothing wrong to deserve this,
but for friendship sake , never mind la, tahan la,
but ...
she din even bother to reply ,


so ..that it ,
I respect her decision ,

as time goes by, I forget about the matter,
and now the funny thing is ,
her face damn thick ,
when need my help ,
can assume nothing happen...
=.=!!!


now what's the adjective I should use again ?
My view may be wrong ,
but please tell me what wrong ,
I appreciate it a lot,


P.S : I bless my friend father have a successful surgery,


boonboon2k2
I just amazed by the people's behavior,

绝情

这次是我第一次做到gam 绝
但是我没后悔这个决定，

点解 ？
因为我发觉我与你识德个朋友个个都mm钟意你
不信？
你自己问他们
叫他们老老实实答你 ，

我肯定他们个答案是你好烦,
仲会说你性格有问题
不识做人，
我不信我同每一个朋友ge
眼睛与判断能力有问题，
唯一个理由就是你自己有问题！！

你话你自己识好多道理，
但是你话被我听的道理， 是歪理 ，
你不要自己骗自己
你识个道理全部都被你 misinterpret 到
你做的每件事都是对ge ! 你当你是圣人阿 ！
我次次不同你吵，
不是你辩论技能一流，
是我不想浪费我的气 ，浪费我的时间


好多次我真是不想lau你
同我朋友一起出街 yumcha,
因为没有你在场 仲好过 ，
个个人次次担心你插不入话题
所以jau尽量开个比较general个topic
好可惜， 你一说完野 ， 一定是冷场
因为你说个野 ， 不是没人明 (你不要以为个个人都识德中国历史) ，
就是笑话 lame 过头
结果一定 。。。 收场

有时我真是顶你的说话方式不顺，
你有野jau说， 没野jau不要说
不要次次同我说mai
“我知道因为某件事令到。。。”
"我知道有的野"
你不要来来去去都 有的野 某些事，
要说就说sai 有的野 某些事下去。。
如果不要说， 就由头到尾jau 不要提
我听到你一说chan这几个字 都想kam 你巴掌
你而家明什么叫 说话直接点

若然你要知道什么事
不要耍心机 ， 直接问
人当你是朋友先不要同你耍心机
不要以为你过度了解人性人心，
你在我眼中 ， 根本不是耍心机的对手。
直接来说， 你在人眼中只是不识想的
不成熟的成年人。

我认，
你是关心朋友 ，
但是， 过度关心是有反效果的
仲有， 你关心人的方法太gay了
你不要以为你个个朋友是女朋友，
好烦 ga!!

仲有， 问心那句
你认为你最shuk的朋友
有边个是你真真正正了解的？
然后， 有没有发觉你 emo 时候
次次找的人都是 offline 的？
emo 是很正常，
但是你 emo 的 次数又多
与原因都是好小事的 ，
试问 有边个顶得顺le?

我相信好多人尝试话被你听同样的东西， 你自己的问题
但是我知道， 你一就是不听， 一就给好多理由 ，
好心你 ， 反省罢 ！


我相信好多人会说我这样说你是好绝
但是又边个会浪费这样多心机，
去做丑人 ，
写这样长的 shoot 人 post,
希望你真是知道/明白，
点解你去边都没有朋友？


虽然我隔你三万八千里 ，
但是我是知道你现在是几堕落,
你自己知自己事
我不想多说！

其实我好想叫你 不要走去同人 lan 熟
同mai 不要 lan叻
但是再说 jau 整到我的post 好长

最后你连foundation 都会 fail ，
你怎样会成功过到 degree 那关？
当个个人都毕业， 而你仲是读甘foundation,
你话要人怎样见你？
见到你都会尴尬 ， 不知应该问候你什么啦！

我好绝 ， 但是如果你不是dulan我到这样
我都不会这样做。

最尾一句
如果你看到这个post 而自杀，
证明我是对的， 你的确是我影像中的懦弱男妇,
如果你真是觉得我说错的，
麻烦证明给我看,

boonboon2k2
我真是真是 。。。。 shoot 完了 。。。。

犯贱 Love 篇

何谓犯贱 ？
犯贱就是明知不可为而为之。
再说就自己抵死
可惜，人就是犯贱

如果你话你从来不犯贱,
你真是枉为人 ！ 你连禽兽都不如 ！
点解 ？ 因为禽兽都会犯贱 。

就拿狗来说 ，
养它就是帮你看门
点知叫鸡时乱乱吠

在此声明
本人没搞过鸡 ，
我还是处男，
但是本人明白那种叫鸡被野骚扰的心情
人， 是最 犯贱的，
男士最经典的犯贱-nism就是
为女死为女亡 ，
世间上
有千千万万的女
何必做人老四老狗le?
但是那种有自己的菜
偏偏又对野花动心，又不肯放弃自己条菜
这些也是犯贱

女, 也是犯贱，
说就要好男人，
但是男人对她越坏
就偏偏她就越死心踏地，
还要搞到自己堕落先甘愿，
是不是自己抵死

情为何物 ？
两个字 “犯贱”


ah yu , pinjam your dulan-nism style for few days,
today suddenly feel like got dulan god give me ilham ,

Ps : sorry to those who cant read chinese , I will come out with another post very fast !

boonboon2k2,
点解我甘命邪 ？ 被人传rumour ...
连facebook都要玩我 。。。。

Business Ethics

If any1 were curios why today got no pic post

well, there are some few unforeseen circumstances

1. I saw a cockroach in toilet...and my good mood gone ,

2. My cable that connects my external hardisk (where i store all my pic)
has malfunctioned,
so i go buy a cable in MidValley today ,
however , their business ethics really
make my mood down to the drain ....

Hm, I can ask them to change the product tomolo
but tat doesn't change my dulan-ess...

As a consumer ,
you buy stuff to make your life easier ,
but
Those people who do business,
their sole motive is to sell their product to you ,
and get the money from you ,
they dun care about you , they just wan your money

and it sucks to know that ,
why cant they do both ?
why cant they just make my life easier and earn the money at the same time?

I consult 2 salesman in order to make sure I get the right cable ,
however , all they do is just
nod and say " ah ha"
and "sure can 1"
"just buy only!!"

but in the end i still got the wrong cable ...
and i cannot access to my pictures
damn dulan!!!

I may be at fault for not being alert ....
but ...haiz ...i still dulan ...
hate kl businessman already ...
at least Ipoh people still got leong sum....

I definitely get scolding from my parent 1 ...
100% confirm..
but already used to it liao ...
I'm always the inferior child/black sheep in their eyes...
haiz...

PS: M.Tam, can i get your blog link , I never realize you have a blog ....


boonboon2k2
I not going to buy anything from Harvey Norman anymore
expensive ....

一杯鲜奶

一个穷苦学生郝武德.凯礼，为了付学费，挨家挨户地推销货品。到了晚上，发现自己的肚子很饿，而口袋里只剩下一个小钱。
然而当一位年轻貌美的女孩子打开门时，他却失去了勇气。他没敢讨饭，却只要求一杯水喝。女孩看出来他饥饿的样子，
于是给他端出一大杯鲜奶来。他不慌不忙地将它喝下。而且问说，『应付多少钱？』
而她的答复却是：「你不欠我一分钱。母亲告诉我们，不要为善事要求回报。」
于是他说：「那么我只有由衷地谢谢了」当郝武德.凯礼离开时，不但觉得自己的身体强壮了不少，而且对天主与对人的信心也增强了起来。
他原来已经陷入绝境,准备放弃一切的。
数年后，那个年轻女孩病情危急。当地医生都已束手无策。家人终于将她送进大都市，以便请专家来检查她罕见的病情。
他们请到了郝武德?凯礼医生来诊断。当他听说，病人是某某城的人时，他的眼中充满了奇特的光辉。他立刻穿上医生服装，
走向医院大厅，进了她的病房。医生一眼就认出了她。他立刻回到诊断室，并且下定决心要尽最大的努力来挽救她的性命。
从那天起，他特别观察她的病情。经过一次漫长的奋斗之后，终于让她起死回生，战胜了病魔。
最后批价室将出院的帐单送到医生手中，请他签字。医生看了帐单一眼，然后在帐单边缘上写了几个字，就将帐单转送到她的病房里。
她不敢打开帐单，因为她确定，需要她一辈子才能还清这笔医药费。但最后她还是打开看了，而且帐单边缘上的一些东西，特别引起她的注目。
她看到了这么一句话：「一杯鲜奶已足以付清全部的医药费！」签署人：郝武德.凯礼医生。
眼中泛滥着泪水，她心中高兴地祈祷着：「天主啊！感谢您，感谢您的慈爱,藉由众人的心和手，不断地在传播着

Things aren't always what they seem..

Two travelling angels stopped to spend the night in the home of a wealthy family. The family was rude and refused to let the angels stay in the mansion's guestroom. Instead the angels were given a small space in the cold basement. As they made their bed on the hard floor, the older angel saw a hole in the wall and repaired it. When the younger angel asked why, the older angel replied, "Things aren't always what they seem."

The next night the pair came to rest at the house of a very poor, but very hospitable farmer and his wife. After sharing what little food they had the couple let the angels sleep in their bed where they could have a good night's rest. When the sun came up the next morning the angels found the farmer and his wife in tears. Their only cow, whose milk had been their sole income, lay dead in the field? The younger angel was infuriated and asked the older angel how could you have let this happen? The first man had everything, yet you helped him, she accused. The second family had little but was willing to share everything, and you let the cow die.

"Things aren't always what they seem," the older angel replied. "When we stayed in the basement of the mansion, I noticed there was gold stored in that hole in the wall. Since the owner was so obsessed with greed and unwilling to share his good fortune, I sealed the wall so he wouldn’t find it."

"Then last night as we slept in the farmers bed, the angel of death came for his wife. I gave him the cow instead. Things aren't always what they seem."

Sometimes that is exactly what happens when things don't turn out the way they should. If you have faith, you just need to trust that every outcome is always to your advantage. You might not know it until some time later...

4 boyfriends

Once upon a time there was this girl who had four boyfriends.

She loved the 4th boyfriend the most and adored him with rich robes and
treated him to the finest of delicacies. She gave him nothing but the
best.

She also loved the 3rd boyfriend very much and was always showing him off
to neighboring kingdoms. However, she feared that one day he would leave
her for another.

She also loved her 2nd boyfriend. He was her confidant and was always
kind,considerate and patient with her. Whenever this girl faced a problem,
she could confide in him, and he would help her get through the difficult
times.

The girls 1st boyfriend was a very loyal partner and had made great
contributions in maintaining her wealth and kingdom. However, she did not
love the first boyfriend. Although he loved her deeply, she hardly took
notice of him!

One day, the girl fell ill and she knew her time was short. She thought of
her luxurious life and wondered, I now have four boyfriends with me, but
when I die, I'll be all alone.'

Thus, she asked the 4th boyfriend, 'I loved you the most, endowed you with
the finest clothing and showered great care over you. Now that I'm dying,
will you follow me and keep me company?'

'No way!', replied the 4th boyfriend, and he walked away without
another
word..

His answer cut like a sharp knife right into her heart.

The sad girl then asked the 3rd boyfriend, 'I loved you all my life. Now
that I'm dying, will you follow me and keep me company?'

'No!', replied the 3rd boyfrien d. 'Life is too good! When you die,
I'm
going to marry someone else!'

Her heart sank and turned cold.

She then asked the 2nd boyfriend, 'I have always turned to you for help and
you've always been there for me.

When I die, will you follow me and keep me company?'

'I'm sorry, I can't help you out this time!', replied the 2nd
boyfriend.
'At the very most, I can only walk with you to your grave.'

His answer struck her like a bolt of lightning, and the girl was
devastated.

Then a voice called out: 'I'll go with you. I'll follow you no
matter where
you go..'

The girl looked up, and there was his first boyfriend. He was very skinny
as he suffered from malnutrition and neglect.

Greatly grieved, the girl said, 'I should have taken much better care of
you when I had the chance!'

In truth, you have 4 boyfriends in your lives:

Your 4th boyfriend is your body. No matter how much time and effort you
lavish in making it look good, it will leave you when you die.

Your 3rd boyfriend is your possessions, status and wealth.When you die, it
will all go to others.

Your 2nd boyfriend is your family and friends. No matter how much they have
been there for you, the furthest they can stay by you is up to the grave.

And your 1st boyfriend is your Soul. Often neglected in pursuit of wealth,
power and pleasures of the world.

However, your Soul is the only thing that will follow you where ever you
go.Cultivate, strengthen and cherish it now, for it is the only part of you
that will follow you and continue with you throughout Eternity.

Pass this on to someone you care about - I just did.

Being happy doesn't mean everything's perfect. It means you've
decided to
see beyond the imperfections.

boonboon2k2
God bless ya =)

Dulan at this moment ...

I damn dulan ,
why ?

First , out of nowhere , somebody add me in msn
is normal ,
but after i accepted her
she pestering me to vote for her in some contest ,
here
well i did, i give face ma ,

but i realize , she also did the same thing to my friend ,
so i damn dulan by this ,

then i msg her and said i very dulan her
and she replied (direct quotation)

"ok since u dun wan vote then dun vote la.
i just soli to ask you to vote.
btw i am the highest vote now"

seriously , i felt other finalist work is more professionally done
to let somebody with her attitude and her work win
it is just unjust ,
so pls
help me

vote for those who are rightful to win

the list of finalist here

boonboon2k2
never seen such thick face fellow like her..

foxy nail for foxy girl?

Is it me or the msg itself has subtle meaning?

Salty Coffee

He met her on a party. She was so outstanding, many guys
chasing after her, while he so normal, nobody paid attention
to him.

At the end of the party, he invited her to have coffee with
him, she was surprised, but due to being polite, she
promised.

They sat in a nice coffee shop, he was too nervous to say
anything, she felt uncomfortable, she thought, please, let
me go home.... suddenly he asked the waiter. 'would you
please give me some salt? I'd like to put it in my coffee.'

Everybody stared at him, so strange! His face turned red,
but still, he put the salt in his coffee and drank it.

She asked him curiously; why you have this hobby?
He replied: 'when I was a little boy, I was living near
the sea, I like playing in the sea, I could feel the taste
of the sea, just like the taste of the salty coffee. Now
every time I have the salty coffee, I always think of my
childhood, think of my hometown, I miss my hometown so much,
I miss my parents who are still living there'.

While saying that tears filled his eyes. She was deeply
touched.

That's his true feeling, from the bottom of his heart.

A man who can tell out his homesickness, he must be a man
who loves home, cares about home, has responsibility of
home.

Then she also started to speak, spoke about her faraway
hometown, her childhood, her family.

That was a really nice talk, also a beautiful beginning of
their story.

They continued to date. She found that actually he was a
man who meets all her demands; he had tolerance, was kind
hearted, warm, careful. He was such a good person but she
almost missed him!

Thanks to his salty coffee!

Then the story was just like every beautiful love story ,
the princess married to the prince, then they were living
the happy life... And, every time she made coffee for him,
she put some salt in the coffee e, as she knew that's
the way he liked it.

After 40 years, he passed away, left her a letter which
said: 'My dearest, please forgive me, forgive my whole
life lie. This was the only lie I said to you---the salty
coffee. Remember the first time we dated? I was so nervous
at that time, actually I wanted some sugar, but I said salt.
It was hard for me to change so I just went ahead.I never
thought that could be the start of our communication! I
tried to tell you the truth many times in my life, but I was
too afraid to do that, as I have promised not to lie to you
for anything.. Now I'm dying, I afraid of nothing so I
tell you the truth: I don't like the salty coffee, what
a strange bad taste.. But I have had the salty coffee for my
whole life! Since I knew you, I never feel sorry for
anything I do for you. Having you with me is my biggest
happiness for my whole life. If I can live for the second
time, still want to know you and have you for my whole
life,even though I have to drink the salty coffee again'.

Her tears made the letter totally wet.Someday, someone
asked her: what's the taste of salty coffee?

It's sweet. She replied.

Dramatic People

Sometime I feel people are very special,
I mean special in sarcasm manner

Hm , I dun understand how human react actually,

I heard this kind of situation any place also ,
University , college, working , as long there is human in any place,

There is always gossips , bitching
backstab, self isolation , boycott, whatever drama u can think of
you name it ,you got it

It makes me wonder,
This kind of people got too much time o?
Instead of spending ur time gossiping , drama-ing / hurting people/ shout at ppl

Since U got time
Why not go other thing for God sake
Go improve yourself,
control ur temper
Learn more stuff, go get a hobby
go do something that will benefit yourself,

Or something that can benefit others ,
Do some charity ,
be social worker ( befirenders for example)
Or maybe volunteer in some charity work ,
Does anyone knows that small effort can make big difference in people life
A 30sec phone call showing u care to people can save depressions
or save them from commit suicide

on a bigger scale ,
pls dont create so much havoc in ipoh ,
I love my hometown , i love my family ,
and i dun wan it to be lost because of politics

if u wan fight for power,
fight it for the sake of the rakyat.
but ...i dun think the rakyat wan to have uncivilized politicians also
compare O'bama with u guys,
one like Gandthi , another like .... tahi

pls , do something useful
focus on improving ipoh current condition,
School is always short of funding,
I bet school with name " SAM TET" definitely need those money
"Anderson" sure got money from Yasmin Ahmad movie already
so give SAM TET first,

There is always late bus, or no bus,
always cant get a bus to go home ,

or at least make the signboard more user-friendly for god sake


why wan spend so many energy boycott people
show face to people
why cant just let it go and forget about it

There are so many people who need ur help /charity
than ur hate ,ur drama , ur gossip, ur shouting

The reason why there is so much war , and conflict
is all those people got nothing to do
and find drama to drama on ,
haiz,


Main reason i say those kind of stuff

Pls dun get me into ISA,
I wan to finish my assignments ,
i dun wan to fail ar,
11k for 1 more sem is not good for my dad already

boonboon2k2
very dulan drama people

Damn sick of Snatch Thieves already

A Pregnant women dies after Thieves pull her off motorcycle ,

Snatch theft: Another PREGNANT women killed

Damn sick of u , ya , i mean u ,
Idiotic Snatch Thieves ,


What you wan is just money , what for kill people ?
U need money then go find a work la ,
If cant find work , then seek for help la,
what for sacrifice ur morality ,
Human without morality is just beast,
and i treat u as one ,
u deserve to be in prison


How many people have to pay a price for ur nonsense?
Why u wan to made other ppl to attend funerals ,
U just wan money ,
why give so much torment to those victims, their families and friends,


And u still wan to kill those pregnant helpless lady ?
Killing two life with one knife is totally brutal ,



A msg to snatch thieves
Curse you to hell!!

boonboon2k2
Sick of snatch thieves,

Something to learn from(家有中等生)

I got this from email, i felt this article really touched my heart , so i post here to share .....



其實沒有遠大理想也不是什麼壞事，這輩子能夠做一個正直的人就可以了。
女兒的同學都管她叫“二十三號”。
她的班裏總共有五十個人，而每每考試，女兒都排名二十三。
久而久之，便有了這個雅號，她也就成了名副其實的中等生。
我們覺得這外號刺耳，女兒卻欣然接受。

老公發愁地說，一碰到公司*活動*，或者老同學聚會，別人都對自家的“小超人”讚不絕口，他卻只能扮深沉。
人家的孩子，不僅成績出類拔萃，而且特長多多。唯有我們家的“二十三號女生”，沒有一樣值得炫耀的地方。


因此，他一看到娛樂節目裏那些才藝非凡的孩子，就羡慕得兩眼放光。
後來，看到一則九歲孩子上大學的報導，他很受傷地問女兒：孩子，你怎麼就不是個神童呢？
女兒說，因為你不是神父啊！
老公無言以對，我不禁笑出聲來。

中秋節，親友相聚，坐滿了一個寬大的包廂。
眾人的話題，也漸漸轉向各家的小兒女。
趁著酒興，要孩子們說說將來要做什麼。

鋼琴家、明星、政界要人，孩子們毫不怯場，連那個四歲半的女孩，也會說將來要做央視的主持人，贏得一陣讚歎。

十二歲的女兒，正為身邊的小弟弟、小妹妹剔蟹剝蝦，盛湯揩嘴，忙得不亦樂乎。
人們忽然想起，只剩她沒說了。
在眾人的催促下，她認真地回答：“長大了，我的第一志願是，當幼稚園老師，領著孩子們唱歌跳舞，做遊戲。”

眾人禮貌地表示讚許，緊接著追問她的第二志願。
她大大方方地說：“我想做媽媽，穿著印叮噹貓的圍裙，在廚房裏做晚餐，然後，給我的孩子講故事，領著他在陽臺上看星星。”

親友愕然，面面相覷，不知道該說些什麼。
老公的神情，極為尷尬。
回家後，他歎著氣說，你還真打算讓女兒將來當個幼稚園老師？咱們難道真的眼睜睜地看著她當中等生？

其實，我們也動過很多腦筋。
為提高她的學習成績，請家教、報輔導班、買各種各樣的資料。
孩子也蠻懂事，漫畫書不看了，剪紙班退出了，週末的懶覺放棄了。
像一隻疲憊的小鳥，她從一個班趕到另一個班，卷子、練習冊，一遝遝地做。

可到底是個孩子，身體先扛不住了，得了重感冒。
輸著液體，在病床上，她還堅持寫作業，最後引發了肺炎。
病好後，孩子的臉小了一圈。
可期末考試的成績，仍然是讓我們哭笑不得的二十三名。

後來，我們也曾試過增加營養、物質激勵等等，幾次三番地折騰下來，女兒的小臉越來越蒼白。
而且，一說要考試，她就開始厭食、失眠、冒虛汗，再接著，考出了令我們瞠目結舌的三十三名。
我和老公，悄無聲息地放棄了轟轟烈烈的揠苗助長活動。
恢復了她正常的作息時間，還給她畫漫畫的權利，允許她繼續訂《兒童幽默》之類的書報，家中安穩了很久。
我們對女兒，是心疼的，可面對她的成績，又有說不出的困惑。

週末，一群同事結伴*郊遊*。
大家各自做了最拿手的菜，帶著老公和孩子去野餐。
一路上笑語盈盈，這家孩子唱歌，那家孩子表演小品。
女兒沒什麼看家本領，只是開心地不停鼓掌。
她不時跑到後面，照看著那些食物。
把傾斜的飯盒擺好，鬆了的瓶蓋擰緊，流出的菜汁擦淨。
忙忙碌碌，像個細心的小管家。

野餐的時候，發生了一件意外的事。
兩個小男孩，一個奧數尖子，一個英語高手，同時夾住盤子裏的一塊糯米餅，誰也不肯放手，更不願平分。
豐盛的*美食*，源源不斷地擺上來，他們看都不看。
大人們又笑又歎，連勸帶哄，可怎麼都不管用。
最後，還是女兒，用擲硬幣的方法，輕鬆地打破了這個僵局。

回來的路上，堵車，一些孩子焦躁起來。
女兒的笑話一個接一個，全車人都被逗樂了。
她手底下也沒閒著，用裝食品的彩色紙盒，剪出許多小*動物*，引得這群孩子讚嘆不已。
至下車，每個人都拿到了自己的生肖剪紙。聽到孩子們連連道謝，老公禁不住露出了自豪的微笑。

期中考試後，我接到了女兒班主任的電話。
首先得知，女兒的成績，仍是中等。
不過，他說，有一件奇怪的事想告訴我，他從教三十年了，第一次遇見這種事。

語文試卷上有一道附加題：你最欣賞班裏的哪位同學，請說出理由。
除女兒之外，全班同學，竟然都寫上了女兒的名字。
理由很多：熱心助人、守信用、不愛生氣、好相處等等，寫得最多的是，樂觀幽默。
班主任還說，很多同學建議，由她來擔任班長。他感歎道：你這個女兒，雖說成績一般，可為人，實在很優秀啊！

我開玩笑地對女兒說，你快要成為英雄了。
正在織圍巾的女兒，歪著頭想了想，認真地告訴我說，老師曾講過一句格言：當英雄路過的時候，總要有人坐在路邊鼓掌。
她輕輕地說：“媽媽，我不想成為英雄，我想成為坐在路邊鼓掌的人。”

我猛地一震，默默地打量著她。
她安靜地織著絨線，淡粉的線，在竹針上纏纏繞繞，彷彿一寸一寸的光陰，在她手裏，吐出星星點點的花蕾。
我心裏，竟是驀地一暖。

那一刻，我忽然被這個不想成為英雄的女孩打動了。
這世間，有多少人，年少時渴望成為英雄，最終卻成了煙火紅塵裏的平凡人。
如果*健康*，如果快樂，如果，沒有違背自己的心意，我們的孩子，又何妨做一個善良的普通人。

長大成人後，她一定會成為：賢淑的妻子、溫柔的母親，甚至，熱心的同事、和善的鄰居。
在那些漫長的歲月裏，她都能安然地過著自己想要的生活。
作為父母，還想為孩子祈求怎樣更好的未來呢？

態度--是學歷'經驗之外, 人格特質的總和
心若改變，態度就會改變；態度改變，習慣就改變；習慣改變，人生就會改變。

Art of asking favor

I am very very dulan,
Not because of the favor you ask me to do
But the way you ask a favor from me ,

First , u ask something from me , u naturally assume i will help
n leave no place for rejection
"help me do this , help me do that"
add a "please" also cannot meh ,
cannot ask nicely 1 meh ?
NO manner f***er

2nd, i sick of deadlines
u ask politely , there would be higher possibility for me to help u,
however, u asking a favor from ME
what the heck u wan add deadline for ,
pls do it for me , i wan it b4 ....this time ....
So freaking cb , I do thing already good enough la ,
still wan to give me deadline
u think u giving me assignment meh
still wan to give pressure to me ar ....
a-hole

3rd , pls give me details
"can pls help me find this song ar , 1 male n 1 female sing 1"
how the heck what song u wan wo , title ? singer ?
n u expect me to find for u .
ooi , i make ur life easier but u wan me to pay a price for it ar ...
ci sin , ki siao ,

next time i do those of kind of thing to u then u know,
I be considerate on my part
but u dint ,
so what for i be considerate

Pls dun ask me who du lan me ,
this is compilation of emotions

boonboon2k2
damn dulan ppl ask favour ask till like tat

忆故友

This is not my work, i actually posted it b4,
but i worried the author might be offended so i remove it ,

i miss him
after i read Yuan(Ivan/Yu) blog ,
He leave all the samtetnian due to merciless brutal snatch thieves
rob ma enough lo , still wan kill for what ,

This is Yuan article regarding the victim point of view
Note: Yuan wrote the article, he is not the victim
I dun wan to write the victim name as I know all samtetnian should know who I am reffering

The link to his article ....
HERE

《等》

不远处,又有人在地铁站外遇袭了。

依然有人尝试着洗濯25/27B道路上的血迹，应用警方常用的一句话，却

“无能为力”。

祭奠上，母亲哭得死去活来，看见友人一个接着一个哭着离开，又能做些什么？

大风吹起，绵雨渐降；

“老公，为什么这么大风？发生什么事儿了吗？”母亲喃喃自语。

敲拍着棺木，母亲召唤着名字，明知是徒劳无功，却不曾放弃。

痛，痛得撕心掏肺，真的。

友人都回家乡去了。

星期二还有考试，还有许多未完成的功课。决定了，要留下来。

没法子，晚餐得自己解决了。

归途中，背后传来急促的摩托引擎声，警觉性地向后一望，

却发现一切都已经太迟了，是吧。

“把身上值钱的东西给交出来！”其中一人用生疏的马来话命令着。

双手举起，脑袋已经一片空白，被巴冷刀的寒光刺激得不敢睁开眼睛，

惶恐。

失措。

为什么会发生这样的事？为什么？

为什么是我？

想不透。

终究乖乖交上了手机和钱包，歹徒掂算着战绩。

却不知哪来的胆子，从他们手中抢回了那不会值几个钱的手机，

道：“我要打电话给母亲。”

跑。

开始没命地跑逃跑。

使劲地跑。

背后的引擎声逐渐逼近，往上头一望，巴冷刀迎面袭来，

本能性地举起右手抵挡，

痛，

好痛。

不是撕裂心扉的痛，却是彷徨无助的痛。

拼命地砍，拼命地挡，麻木地痛。

左手托着面目全非的右手，紧握着手机，

“一定会有人帮我的。”自语着。

跑。

后脑一股凉意，紧接着的，

是绝尘而去的引擎声。

绝望的声音。

按了速拨键，电话那头响起了熟悉的声音，却显得失措。

“儿，你还好吗！？”

周围好吵，吵得不可开交，吵得涌现出一丝希望的亮光。

“爸，别担心，小事罢了，周围有好多人，没事的，一定没事的！”

这么安慰着。

有人试图送医，

警察叔叔却推说：“救护车来了！别担心。”

“血，有好多血，好多好多。”

“他该不行了。”

朦胧、吵杂、晕眩…寂静。

“除非他自己走来，否则休想我会诊治他。”

“药物不够，我也无能为力。”

医者父母心？我啐。

等，太平盛世。

黄昱渊 U6F1

Friends

Do you agree that your closest friend is a mirror of you ?
What i mean is the similarities in many ways, personalities, values , way of handling adversity..

Today i just realize that, my closest friendS (note: i put S purposely) is somehow similar with me.
Note that i did not choose my best friends, it just come naturally.

and ya, with more similarities with that person, the closer u will be with that particular person.
Or perhaps, the frequency of u being with that person that makes u closer?

I used to be very close with some of my high school friends,
Some may share same values with me, some may not,
but yet, we still best friends

Now, after we venture into different environment,
i not sure whether we share the value anymore,

But still, the close friend i having now really have a lot of similarities
i myself just realized it today,
so it is normal for other to be as shocked as i am...lol


boonboon2k2
Having writer's flow

Unpredicted eclipse

Eclipse

I was playing with my phone and I saw this black spot on my camera phone.

Apparently that my camera phone cant identify intense light , therefore it shows a black spot in my camera.

That why, dont look down when you are down. The beauty always lies up or ahead.

boonboon2k2
Hope to see eclipse in my life.