好男人， 为什么会变 玩世不恭的 坏男人

I heard some of my friend's girls friend has been complaining

that all men are jerks ,

all are perverts....or no more good man exist anymore and

blah blah , all those comment aiming at guys ....

男人不坏，女人不爱

(women only loves bad man)

This saying has been existed for very long time ,correct ?

I happen to read this article （it's the same article below)

which actually explain why all boy are bad ...

in simple term, it is just supply and demand...

which leads me into thinking ,

if girl willing to be together with a bad guy,

arent they suppose to be one  responsible for being cheated/treated badly ?

why whine about bad guy when the girls are the one who  犯贱 (means you doing something you know you shouldn't do it) ?

Translation for the article.

其实每个男孩，本来都是想做一个感情专一的好男人的。

Every guy, wanted to be a good guy who are loyal to love initially, 

其实每个男孩，本来看女孩子都是看脸而不是胸部的。

Every guy,  look at girl's face instead of breast initially, 

其实每个男孩，本来都是不会讲黄色笑话的。

 Every guy, don't know anything about sexual jokes initially.

其实每个男孩，本来都是渴望爱一个人直到永远的。

 Every guy, desire to love someone forever initially,

只是，没有任何女孩爱这样的男孩，她们觉得这样的男孩太幼稚，太古板，没有情趣。

 But then, no girls love this type of boys, they felt this kind of boy too childish, too old fashion, no excitement,

于是男孩开始改变，变成女孩喜欢的那种嘴角挂着坏坏的笑 玩世不恭或者幽默。

 That why, guy start to evolve, turn into those man with sinister laugh, carefree attitude with sense of humour.

开始学会说甜言蜜语而不是心里想说的话

 They start to have sweet talk instead of telling what inside boy heart

开始学会假装关心，学会给女孩送小饰物讨好她 ，

 They start to pretend to care, mastering the art of giving small gift to the girls,

学会如何追求，如何把握爱情。

 They learn how to flirt, how to handle love,

或者看破红尘，游戏情场，成为女人恨恨的那种男人，

 or, see through the ironies of  life, turn love into game, and evolve into man that all girls hates,

他们可以很容易俘获女孩子的心，但是他们也会在黑的夜里叼着烟流泪。

 They can easily take a girl heart, but in the meanwhile their heart will bleed in the middle of the night.

心里有爱的时候，没有女孩，有了女孩，却永远没有了爱的感觉

 When guy love a girl, there is no girl : but when they have girl on their side, they don't have the feeling of love.

 在听到女人抱怨世上没有一个好男人时候，

 So, that why , when the guys heard the complaint from the girls, where they is no more good guy left.

他们不会再去努力做个好男人，只是微笑着擦肩而过。

 Those guys wont try their very best to be a good man, they just pass by showing a slight of grin.

真心想去爱时,女孩不爱

Really wan to love that time, the girls dont love.
男人才变坏

that why boy turn into bad guy.

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那些玩世不恭的男人,何尝不是受过伤后才改变的.

Those man with playboy attitude, aren't they evolve after being hurt ?


PS: for the girls who meet their Mr.Right , I glad for you ....
I have no flaming intention,
I just writing something for men's defense