如果你不能为她系上婚纱的纽扣，就不要解开她上衣的纽扣

近期听了一些刺耳的话，

有个男孩说：

“昨天我和xxx搞了，

真爽，她还是处女哦!

 上床的时候。。。。（他用了大概十五分钟来形容整个过程）

细节，我还是不谈了

Recently,I overheard a conversation of a male talking to his friends,

the conversation content is as follows :

"I got to have intercourse with this girl,

what a great feeling, she is still a virgin you know !

when we on the bed .........(15 min worth of adjectives and description)

regarding to the details, i think i will skip it.

到最后，最刺耳那句既然：

“这个女孩过期了， 是时候分手了”

wa sai ...

这样都可以？

At the end, the cruelsome statement he says :

"this girls has expired, it time to break up with her"

wa sai,

Is there such thing ?

听了这句我的反应蛮激烈的，真想打他几十巴掌的。

I got huge anti-boy feeling when I heard this, I really want to slap him.

这些坏男人往往要女人坚守贞洁，

可是，问一问良心， 这些坏男人有守身如玉吗？

These guys wanted girls to be "clean"

but, honestly speaking, did these guy do the same ?

男人啊，当你们想要你的女人为你献身的时候，

想一想你们的未来， 你会是守她一辈子的男人吗？

Guys,when you wanted your partner's body,

think of your future, will you be the one that is with her for whole life ?

如果你在乎一个女人是否处子之身， 难道别人不在乎吗？

一个女人结婚之后给了她的男人，

可是那男人一定是第一次吗？这样公平吗？

If you mind a girl being a virgin, wouldn't it be the same for others ?

 a girl gives her virginity to her man,

but is that guy a virgin ? isn't it unfair to begin with ?

一个男人虽在婚前说不介意，但你能担保他在婚后吵架时不提这问题吗？

试想如果一个男人对一个女人说：

“你也不是给人搞过吗？”

这对女人是多大的侮辱啊，试问这感情能维持多久？

Although men say he won't mind such issue before marriage,

but can you guarantee he wont mention it when you had a fight ?

Imagine a guy say to a girl :

"you also not a virgin "

isn't this an insult to a girl,

If this happens every fight, how does this relationship last ?

男人也常以处女膜证明，证明她对男人的爱，

如果女人不同意， 那就不够爱了。

那么这个男人，你太肤浅了，

你口口声声以真爱为名，

那你有真的爱过她吗？

你有想过她的未来吗？

如果未来你们分手了，

那你不是搞了别人的老婆吗？

这样， 还得了？

men used to use virginity as an excuse, an excuse to prove her love to men,

If the girl do not agree to give her virginity, means she do not love the boy enough,

To boys who have this thought in mind , I hereby tell you ,

you are too childish or too naive,

If you really love her ,

did you think of her future ?

if (touchwood) you two had a breakup ,

aren't you literally had intercourse with other people wife?

贞洁，在女人字典，是最宝贵的，

一旦给了你，她的一辈子的幸福就交到你手上，

如果你真的爱她，

为何不等到她真正的跟你的姓才来脱她的纽扣呢？

不要因一时的冲动和欲望，

而创造她一辈子的悲剧。

Virginity, is the most valuable asset for women ,

if she give you that, she put her whole life on your hands,

if you really love her,

why not wait till she follows your surname,

then you only take off her clothes?

Don't cause a lifetime tragedy of hers because of your lust ....

到最后，我只想表达的是

一个经典名句

”如果你不能为她系上婚纱的纽扣，就不要解开她上衣的纽扣”

因为当你脱了她的内衣时， 你就穿上一辈子的责任。

Lastly, what i'm trying to say is

IF you can't put on wedding dress on her, then dont take off her clothes,

because once you do , you bear a lifetime responsibility.

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性， 不是用来证名男人的魅力，

而是感情里的精华，

sex, is not a tool to prove a men's ability to attract girls,

But it's an essence of a relationship.